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Kids nowadays act like adults. I met some during the holiday. They just made me remember the guys I really hated.
One or two of them didn't like talk. So their parents pointed at their noses and yelled at them, as there were idiots or something like that.
Those adults have been live for so many years, still don't understand the wisdom of being silent.

If I would have children, I won't ask them to do what they don't like, but teach them to discipline themselves, to think, to be tolerant, and know how to live a life.

Nothing to say

It has really been a mess these days. I'm so tired of explaining everything to everyone. I don't even know what I was doing.
Breaking up before the sun rises is absolutely terrible, which is the last thing I can do.
Relationship exhausted me. Anyone who wants to blame me, be my guest.

culture

As the American students turned their heads to us, I feel like being in a silent war.
For all these years, they don't know a real China. The situation is not better today, even when they are walking on the land of the country.

a long long way to go

Sometimes truth is just far from our expectation. The more we understand that, the more we desire to find out the truth.

I've been reconsidering about my future these days. Maybe I'm not destined to anything, at least I haven't found what it is yet. But as long as I have a little passion and patience on what I'm major in, I have to make it better.

Remember that: people who you envy may envy you too.

communication

I just refered the blog Sex and Shanghai yesterday. In the evening I found it was shut down by himself, asking for a code to enter.
I'm wondering, is there still any motivation to write, for it can't be read by public?

I used to research in a group of people who was maintaining at least one blog. What I found was they all wanted be read. If there was no repond, they would feel dull to gosip to themselves, 'cuz that's no more than a diary.

That's why blog has become so popular since it was born. We got a platform to show what we get in life and search for what we wanna know. That's called communication.

Sex and Shanghai

I checked the blog Sex and Shanghai again this morning. To my surprise, there was another new article.
These days, it seems that Chinabounder gets really early to update his blog, including every detail account about his sexual experience with Chinese women. I guess that's because he's getting busier and his blog is getting more famous.
People who read his blog must know the guy Zhang Jiehai, who recently wrote an article to shout at Chinabounder which push Sex and Shanghai to a new level instead. I guess he must be very upset in this consequence.
The words appeared is Zhang Jiehai's article is rude, but powerless. Instead, the retort made by Chinabounder is more cynical and interesting.
I guess many people, whoever man or woman, feel angry about the manner of Chinabounder's narration. But we really don't need to do things like that, which make us more like a fool. All kinds of people live in the planet, doing tiny little things every second. Some people want to show them up. That's okay. We read, enjoyed and laughed out loud. That's enough.

A Cinderella Story

It is said that a real mature true love has to go through four periods: codependent, counterdependent, independent and interdependent. The time needed in period transaction is discriminated in different relationships.

The first period is codependent. It's a time when two people get passion together. They want be together in every second.
The second is counterdependent. When the relationship get stable, at least one of the two want more time to do something personal. Then the other one feel being absent treated.
The third one is independent, which is subsequent to the second period. People in this period demand more self-governed time.
The last is interdependent. Till then, the new way of mixing in is shaped. He (or she) has become your closest person. You're together to support each other, create lives belonging to you. You won't get in each other's way, but both grow up.

The theory really means something. I'm sad to find that I hadn't break through the first period when he already got the third one. I always thought it was me going too far. But the truth is I didn't catch up with him.

Two people who love each other at first still need working on the relationship, not necessarily having a happy ending. That's why all fairy tales always end at the beginning of a relationship which is the most splendid moment.